Pisces told me that getting from stage 1-stage 2 takes the longest amount of time. Once you're in stage 2 in a way it's on the road to reconciliation as you are friends again and can talk and do things together. I think with stage 1, there is limited contact, it's often business contact, and there is still a lot of negativity. Do you feel like there is still negativity in your sitch?
Could you call your H at any time and ask him to casually join you to do something?
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Me:34 H:36 M:5 years T: 8 years Bomb: 07/17/08 I want to be separated for 6 months--I don't know what I want the outcome to be S 07/28/08-11/08/08 Living together ~7 months D Possibly busted?!?!!!