Thanks BH and Sep,

BH
You are always very positive and somehow analytical which I really appreciate :). I think that I felt since he said these things on a counseling call, then they must be true. OK I am not going to believe him for the time being, or will believe he felt these things for a moment in time, and maybe isn't feeling them now, or won't be later etc. You are right that he noticed the changes. Now the issue is on him feeling like he can deal with a R. As long as we have the chance to be in the same house though, I can wait this one out for a loong time.

Sep
Thanks for the words of encouragement. I will try not to worry too much about the re-written history. After all only recently he has sent emails saying that he did a lot of things wrong too. It was only on last night's call that it was all me...

I'll post later after the session with Jody. I hope she still thinks I should just move back in...

ITH


Me:34 H:36 M:5 years T: 8 years
Bomb: 07/17/08 I want to be separated for 6 months--I don't know what I want the outcome to be
S 07/28/08-11/08/08
Living together ~7 months D Possibly busted?!?!!!