Wow. I am happy for you Sue. I really hope he is for real and has committed to working on your M and getting rid of OW. Sadly, when I thought my H was doing that he really wasn't. He was keeping contact with OW and trying to hide it. Hopefully your H is a little more grown up than mine.
Great job on the alcohol assesment. Those are tough things to do, but you were honest and maybe it will get him some help.
Good luck to you!!
Me: 46 FWS: 36 Married and Divorced 4/07, Pregnant 7/07,False R 7/07 Baby Girl born 3/08 Kicked him out because OW: 7/08 5/10 He realized what he had and lost. Moved home! REMARRIED 3/14/11!!