Great Goal!

Take baby steps and one day at a time!

Don't make this easier for him - what I mean here is don't agree to D, file for D or talk about D with him - unless this is the path you want. Let him "play house" to see that another person is not going to make him happy - happiness can only come from within. Just as you cannot be dependent on him for your happiness - think of things that make you happy that don't involve him. Think of things to work on for YOU and for your kids - make them the focus!

Stay strong! You can do this - trust me there were days I did not want to get up either and my kids kept me grounded. You will get through this I swear!

HB


Me41 H44 * M16 yrs * D13 S10
8/06 H wants a D * 1/07 OW Truth
2/07 Searated * 7/07 H moved home
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