I'm so sorry to hear of your ambush divorce. Way to go in making a divorce tougher than it already is. In a way you might look back and feel this was for the best. If it was going to happen anyway, at least you may have been spared some of the stress and anxiety that builds during the weeks preceeding our court dates. Just trying to look for the silver lining in all of this!
I also wonder what your wife's reaction was all about. It's just hard to understand how their brain works or whether they even know what it is they want.
Anyway, here's to a bright and joyfilled future. When the dust settles everything will seem much clearer!
