Hi Sep,

I wouldn't worry about going against DB and initiating! I think sometimes we need to make those bold moves to get a better insight into the DAM mindset. Glad it paid off for you!

ML, long conversation, laying in the bed together, all sounds good!

Tell me, because I'm not too familiar with your sitch, where are things now? What did your H say when he left, is there a specific period of time for which this sep is supposed to last? Has he said he still wants to work on things?

ITH


Me:34 H:36 M:5 years T: 8 years
Bomb: 07/17/08 I want to be separated for 6 months--I don't know what I want the outcome to be
S 07/28/08-11/08/08
Living together ~7 months D Possibly busted?!?!!!