You're doing well. Hang in there. You can't unlock all the potential at once anyway! It will be a slow process, as you know. I agree with Sep though that your sitch does have a lot of potential, and I see it as one of the most promising on this board. You see each other frequently, and there is still counseling, even if only IC. He hasn't said he doesn't want to work things out, no OW etc. This is only 1 day of NC. I went through the same thing, and have been up to 3 days with NC now. It is painful, and it doesn't really get less so, but it does get easier not to initiate contact, I promise.
Things will go well again when he sees that you are not pursuing him. It will make all the difference in the world. Hang in there Daisy!
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Me:34 H:36 M:5 years T: 8 years Bomb: 07/17/08 I want to be separated for 6 months--I don't know what I want the outcome to be S 07/28/08-11/08/08 Living together ~7 months D Possibly busted?!?!!!
