Thanks Hoosz,
I haven't had a chance to ask him about the wedding, haven't seen him, but your advice was sound and I will follow it.

I was visiting my parents for the past week. When H realized it was my mother's birthday he actually made the effort to telephone her. He even told me to drive safely upon my return. I made the 6 1/2 hour drive yesterday and when he couldn't reach me by telephone e-mailed this morning at 3:38 to see if everything was all right.

This thread has got to be one of the least dramatic in the history of DB but, I just wanted to keep the continuity going should anyone else be experiencing the same.


Me: 59
H: 59
Together: 28 years
Married: 25 years in August
"There may be someone else" 12/26/07
H signed a one year lease 4/1/08
H moved out 5/11/08
H beginning to show a tiny amount of interest 7/5/08
Is it possible that he is courting me? 9/30/08