Carried on avoiding any mention of some of the things about my wife's behaviour that were bothering me and I guess it's all come crashing down.
Went round for a movie and stayed last Sunday. Everything lovely. Arranged to go and see her Thursday. Got there and ... BANG... ABSOLUTE AND TOTAL 180 in her behaviour. She just stonewalled me. Staring into space etc.
OUT OF NOWHERE.
Ended up having a chat where she, without any emotion, told me she was wrong... she loved me but it wasn't enough... she wanted to end things. No real explanation... just done.
I was devastated.
She then phoned me two days later and asked 'if I was okay'? That confused me even further. I told her I was confused. I asked her if she was sure she was doing the right thing... had she over-reacted because she was having a bad day etc (didn't mention why I really thought it was). She said 'maybe'. She then said she just needed 'space'.
Exactly the same stuff as all the way back in January.
SOMEBODY PLEASE, PLEASE, PLEASE HELP ME.
Things aren't quite as bad because she will talk to me but she has just put a complete stop to seeing each other in a dating fashion out of the blue.
I feel like I should deliver an ultimatum. She can't have got involved with me so deeply for 3 months and just turn her feelings off again. This is all too much.
