Hi, Ready sent me your way. Seems we have a few things in common. I had a cancer scare last November. I haven't read your whole sitch, but wanted to tell you that I think you handled today just great. Good PMA.
take care
M 19 years, MC for 8 months, DB'd for 8 months 4 kids; 18, 15, 14, & 10 I was never meant to be a doormat. It took me years of therapy to become assertive enough to stop his abuse.