I am reading Hendrix:"Keeping the love you find" and highly recommend it. It is deeper and taking longer to read than most of the self help books I have been reading.
Good quote from it "In order to be loved, you must first become a lover" and "BEING the right partner is more important than PICKING the right partner"
I really like that quote. It's so true.
How do you balance everything now ? You seem very disciplined as far as making time for all the things that fill your own love bucket and being such a great dad.
M 19 years, MC for 8 months, DB'd for 8 months 4 kids; 18, 15, 14, & 10 I was never meant to be a doormat. It took me years of therapy to become assertive enough to stop his abuse.