I opened up to him about some of the fears I have been having, but did not look to him to support me or be there for me. He kept saying that he wanted to be there for me whenever he could
Hear that from H.
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Still, I have to think of this as him using this opportunity to build his own ego and it has nothing really to do with wanting to be with me.
Bottom line (and I think with my H too), they care. In whatever way they are able to. He doesn't want you suffering and wants to keep you close. Now, if its just to feed their ego a bit too, so be it. Its still easier to remain at peace with them if they help.
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Instead I just took it as very nice that he could help out when I needed it. So, I was able to pick myself up and just appreciate the moment
