Well done T! I like it alot! Congratulations - that conversation is your hard work paying off. I am so pleased that you listened and let him talk. A big gold star for you!
Questions: 1. Why arent you thrilled that he has been offered this opportunity with the soprano? Would this be a good time to compliment him and sing his praises? I'm wondering if he's looking to you to tell him that he can do anything and he needed your encouragement? Obviously you know best and can read him and you understand the big picture, but my first thought was that it was weird that you werent jumping up and down and affirming him????
2. Obviously what you are doing is working. The latest plan was to step it up a bit more and make it more obvious that you are still interested in connecting romantically. After this conversation do you think its best to keep building the friendship? OR are you going to do over the phone flirting, and maybe throw the 'you rocked my world sexually' thing out there?!?!
3. Can you think of another reason why you need him to call you after this next conversation you are going to have? Another question or dilema that he would need to check back on in a weeks time? Another opportunity for him to rescue you, and you to be admiring him??