Hi ACJ, We were just cross posting - how funny. I was posting on your thread.
I wish H were in the acceptance phase!! I don't try to help him anymore.
A friend of mine told me that she also suffered from depression when she had the menapause. She confirmed that she did not want to listen to family or friends that she should seek help. Only she finally seeked help and accepted it from a complete stranger, i.e. a psychologist.
ACJ, Yes, I read it. It describes him to a T!!! He is going through an adropause for sure. I wanted him to read it once he was here and left the book lying about, but he just ignored it. I might re-read the book again.
You know, somehow I am also expecting D papers from H again, although he recently wrote that he can't deal with it right now. He resents me so much for still wanting some money off him that he will surely use that excuse for the D.
Oh well, I am getting quite fed up with all these books. I want to do something else in my life again. During the last 3 years my sitch absorbed me and I read or watched nothing else but subjects on MLC, depression and marital problems.
How about a trip overseas to take the mind off of everything.
Maybe we can go on a cruise:
The Left Behind Spouses Cruise Ship............
Holly can teach us all how to pole dance. ha ha!!
The Bomb: 08/05 H moves out: 06/2006 H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07 H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08 H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09 Divorced 08-12 Kids: 22, 20, 19
I don't think H not being able to deal with D right now means he is not ready himself. I think it is more likely that he is travelling or doing some other things which need his full attention, and therefore he has no time to file. I think he made up his mind to definitely get D when I stayed with him.
I had a lovely evening again. I met a GF and we went to a concert which we both enjoyed very much. Tomorrow I will meet her again in the afternoon, and in the evening I will go to a book introduction with another GF.
The weather is quite unpleasant and cold and unfortunately, the fog does not lift all day. So I am glad that I have some events to go to.
You should come & visit here, it's been in the 70's all week & the sun is so pretty. I think it is supposed to warm up later on this week. This is unusual for this time of year here, but I'm enjoying it.
I'm so glad you are getting out & enjoying your life.
I think you should just wait & let H contact you. If he wants the D bad enough he will do something about it.
