Hey, the behavior your H has NOW compared to when he was having an EA is TOTALLY DIFFERENT. You don't need to keep verifying his actions really. You do need to start trusting him. I know it's hard, but little by little start letting that fear go. otherwise those suspicions will creep in more and more and he'll KNOW your not trusting him and that's not a good feeling either.

the sonoma idea was gREAT! couldn't you ask that guy from the hotel (wasn't he an owner or something) about a deal?

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He's been feeling extremely guilty and wrote my Mom an 8 page apology letter.
That is incredible. I hope that your mom can take it as such. Has he given it to her yet?

Me 33 H 34 S9 S3
M 6 yrs (2gether 11 yrs)
EA/PA 1/2006
DB 5/2006
H wants D 6/2006
H wants ME 8/2006
H "said" PA/EA over 8/2006
H erased OW off phone! 2/2007

"It is far better 2 choose humility & change oneself, than 2 wait in vain trying 2 chang someone else."