This is a fascinating thread.. I finally decided to read the WAS forum mainly because I didn't think there was anything else to learn after reading DR. Anyway, , a couple of the posters here may recognize me from my posts in Newcomers. I've been in a bad place recently and almost gave up. I haven't talked to my wife since June yet I woke up the other day and it just clicked that I want to keep trying. I talk to her daughter on and off and asked her to approach her mom about us meeting. Well, I received an email from my wife today and man, was she PIS*ED!! I mean really angry. "I don't have time for your garbage" That was the nice part of her letter. She is a WAW, last November, no papers yet mainly I think because I told her that she was going to do the footwork on the D and pay the $500 court fee for a no-contest divorce. Anyway, I'm not a physical abuser although we have had NASTY verbal fights in the past, I don't stalk her or anything like that. I actually was dark from June until now. So my question guys, is WHY is she so angry? She was calm as hell when she did the WAW in November. Cool as ice actually. But now...Wow!! She is having plenty of money problems. We don't have any kids together and I do not owe her any money. Can you guys shed some light on the anger issue and why she was so nasty with the email? I am confused to say the least.
