Thanks guys,

This does suck big time. I really feel bad. My ex father in law made me promise not to say anything to my W and I will respect his wishes. Apparently my MIL called him twice to give him a truckload of $hit for spilling the beans.
I guess W figured it out with my reaction today....i did not act as if. She and her mom are going to get what they deserve one day.
Meanwhile, I don't think I will be getting too much sleep tonight.