NC, you are brilliant! I love that analogy as well.
Wow Donna, how you have grown in such a short time. When you first started this thread you were desperate to get your H back. Now it sounds like you are close to acceptance, and doing it with loving grace. It gets hard at times, lord knows, but I find that the lows dont last so long and they come further and further apart. As far as the OW is conserned, I'm with Karen on that one. I do look down on her because she KNOWING contributed to the distruction of a M and took part in hurting children. If they are so hot for our H, then wait for our H to D us then go after them. No, I am a better person becuase I would NEVER be with someone who was still married - even if he said he was in the process of getting a divorce. Show me the decree and then we will talk.
Broken Hearted ------------------ Me - 36 H - 37 S - 8 Married - 1992 ILYNILWY - August 2007 Moved Out - March 2008 OW Revieled - May 28, 2008 Filed for D - July 2, 2008