When you do that, they talk about your contact of her, and they laugh about you.
This is true. UGH I know for a fact it is.
So, puppy is right, don't give them any reason to laugh. Make fun lunch plans with other co-workers and never make eye contact, its not worth it.
Don't let her see you crying. She doesn't care. And thinks its funny. And puppy is right, ANY attention given to her bumps up her 'status'.
You don't have to be fake and happy, but just go about your work day. If you cry, do it alone or with friends later.
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For starters, it helps to think of your husband as an addict -- that will help you with forgiveness, and will put things in the proper perspective.
Think of him as an addict, then DON'T think of him at all. No more heated texts either. Won't get you anywhere, and might actually backtrack you. Please learn from my mistakes!
