I don't think H not being able to deal with D right now means he is not ready himself. I think it is more likely that he is travelling or doing some other things which need his full attention, and therefore he has no time to file. I think he made up his mind to definitely get D when I stayed with him.
I had a lovely evening again. I met a GF and we went to a concert which we both enjoyed very much. Tomorrow I will meet her again in the afternoon, and in the evening I will go to a book introduction with another GF.
The weather is quite unpleasant and cold and unfortunately, the fog does not lift all day. So I am glad that I have some events to go to.