You sound kind of excited about it! Would she even know you had moved things around? - does she go in your room, or will she just be there when you do it?
I thikn it would send a clear message to her that it is now considered 'your' room and you are ok with that, kind of like acceptance of this live-in seperation she has enforced on you.
Wonder how she will react??
Ali xxx
Me:40! H:37 Together: 12yrs IDLY & left 11/07 ADs 03/08 OW 8/08 Reconciled 05/09 now married! my thread