Twin - Good for you! H must face reality and I'm glad that his parents voiced their opinions about the whole situation. He only got angry because they were right and he didn't like to hear it. My MIL has said nothing even after seeing her granddaughter cry over all this. I told her it bothered me that she said nothing with all that has happened especially for her to be living with us at the time. She had lunch with him this past Monday but has yet to talk about it. I don't even want to know. She avoids confrontations at all costs. I know she probably didn't say much and he did all the talking. It upsets me but its out of my control. When my lease is up in February and she is still living with me I will tell her she will have to find somewhere else to go.

Hope - Thank you for the birthday wish!!! Happy EARLY birthday to you!!!! Don't SOB!! Be HAPPY!!! Do something extra special for yourself!!!!! You deserve it!!!!!

(((((((((HUGS TO EVERYONE)))))))))))

Me35/H35
D16/SS14
M-1yr/known H 18yrs
1st Bomb: 4/26 OW35
2nd Bomb: 8/17 OW21
Moved out 8/21/08
H filed D on 9/9/08

God determines who walks into your life...it's up to you to decide who you let walk away, who you let stay, and who you refuse to let go.