That must be tough, they are so youmg, but your son sounds very wise! Its amazing that your exH just wants to spend one weekend in two with them, thats not very much time is it? And yes, you are raising his kids for him. It doesnt sound like you would want to part with them for any more time than that though.
Do you thikn it would help them to spend MORE time with him? Could you talk to him about that? Could you let them go more often if he would agree? You sound kind of territorial over them, but its not surprising after how he has behaved.
I dont have kids, but I really feel for you, its so much more to deal with thatn just your own hurt and disappointment,
Al xxx
Me:40! H:37 Together: 12yrs IDLY & left 11/07 ADs 03/08 OW 8/08 Reconciled 05/09 now married! my thread
