Hey Jeff. You got me in trouble last night...in my dream anyway....
Hope you are well today and continuing to get organized. If you mail me all your papers I will ship them back in organized, labeled hanging files. I love doing that kind of stuff....
Catchin' up Jeffy Poo...sounds like you are making progress!!! Trust me, when the space is cleared, you will LOVE it!!!
Everyone says that! No one is here, actually helping!
(((((Lola)))))
Okay, in my defense, I don't have a car right now...lololol
Im still standin better than I ever did looking like a true survivor feeling like a little kid Im still standin after all this time and Im picking up the pieces of my life without you on my mind..
(((((Michelle))))) I'm looking forward to your visit! I should be on another project by then!
((((((BobbiJo)))))) That sounds like a great plan..... I think there's a flaw, but I haven't figured it out yet!
((((((Lola)))))) I'll come get you! And, it sounds like you might have a car by now!
((((((Julia)))))) That sounds like a great plan! I have a Dr. appointment in the morning, and a work commitment in the afternoon. Maybe I can be there by the weekend!
OK, I got all of the papers off of the desk and onto the bed, and have started sorting them, building yet another trash pile! I hope I can finish the sorting tonight. And then get things ready to move tomorrow night. I think W will be very surprised, I've never been the one to take the initiative on rearranging things. Don't know what she'll think about it, don't really care!
I would love to come over and help, you know how I love organizing. Hmm, who would you tell wife we all are? "W, my fan club just came by to help me sort a few things. Hope you dont mind."
I would love to come over and help, you know how I love organizing. Hmm, who would you tell wife we all are? "W, my fan club just came by to help me sort a few things. Hope you dont mind."
"By the way, they are staying for dinner! Maybe breakfast, too! Don't worry, I'll cook!"
You sound kind of excited about it! Would she even know you had moved things around? - does she go in your room, or will she just be there when you do it?
I thikn it would send a clear message to her that it is now considered 'your' room and you are ok with that, kind of like acceptance of this live-in seperation she has enforced on you.
Wonder how she will react??
Ali xxx
Me:40! H:37 Together: 12yrs IDLY & left 11/07 ADs 03/08 OW 8/08 Reconciled 05/09 now married! my thread
I am excited about it! Except for the hating doing it part!
She'll know, she comes in now and then to get stuff out of the closet (I expect some of this in the next couple months, as the seasons change)or the drawers. And she sticks her head in now and then to tell me something. So, she'll see it.
I think it sends the message that I am taking responsibility for taking care of the room. I don't think it sends a message of accepting the situation. At least I hope not!
If you want a guess on how she'll react, I ecpect that she will tell me I did it wrong. Or should have asked her, or something. I think her control issues will come through. But, no expectaions!
and providing virtual sustenance.