Husband's Missed Oppotunity #2

[blindsided1]

Okay, need some a$$ kicking please. H just called to ask about daycare payment. He's in a terrible mood - terrible. I didn't ask what was wrong. I need some words of support and strenght here. I feel like I'm getting more and more upset. He's coming to see K tonight for a little while before school. I just have this horrible feeling that he is going to bring his bad mood with him and I already feel sad. He's turning into that jerk, again. I know he'll take it out on me and I'll let it bring me down. I just tried to be pleasant on the phone. So, I just need to remind myself that it NOT ME - ITS NOT ME he's angry at. Don't take it personally. And, DO NOT let him lead me into an arguement. Help!