...I know exactly what my answer would be....be loving towards him, just do not love him. Give him only what you can while still being able to detach. Drop the rope, move on with your life. As long as there is OW, the is no chance to R. This is the time to focus only on you, stop looking at him.....see, I know the answers yet I search anyway. Just part of my stubborn nature I guess. It is always easier to see someone else's sitch instead of our own...
Good morning (or afternoon)....
YOU KNOW the answer. Do more of what works. Stop doing what doesn't work.
Just remember you are here. Enjoy what you have in your life right now. FOCUS on today. If your H initiates a hug, you have the choice to accept it and enjoy it if that is what YOU want.
*HUGS and prayers and a great big smile!*
"What is best for my kids is best for me" Amor Fati Link to quotes: https://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2879712
