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[Kakatal]

And I need to figure out what to do about her car payment. (which is in both of our names) I don't want to pay her stuff but if I don't it will ruin my formerly perfect credit.

HTTE,

I am going through this same crap with SBXW. Both of our cars are in both of our names. I called Ford Motor Credit & asked how I could get off her car & her off mine. I had to submit a credit application & $75 fee for them to run my credit & determine if they would drop her from my loan.

So you may want to look at that route in order to get yourself off her car loan & vice versa.

Read up on your sitch. Mirrors mine but my w has already filed & is bound & determined to leave. I have found respect for myself in realizing that I don't want to be with anyone who would disrespect me by cheating on me. It's all about ME now - she has no control over that.