John, I read your news this afternoon (my time) but I had to leave the office. I am sorry my friend. You knew all along that something was going on, it's what Lan has said once to me or on his thread "that gut feeling there is another person is 99 times correct even when there is no tangible proof". I was hoping it was a stray for your wife and she had figured out what you and your family are worth. Obviously she is still infatuated and made her choice based on whatever she feels right now. I think what you should do now is just protect yourself and deal with your anger and that feeling of being betrayed lied to etc. I know it is very hard. I still feel bad when I think of all the lies I believed having no clue what was going on. And even up to until now, I would appreciate it if he would just tell me what and when happened. Just for the record...
We are here if you need to vent. This sucks. We all know how it feels. Love K
