Just back from the bank meeting..... I could not tell her because D7 was there. Apparently her lice is back and she was sent home from school. Anyhow, W could tell by the look on my face that something was up. She asked me what was wrong on several occasions. I just replied that I needed a couple of hours. Which confused her even more. She did ask me if something happened and i could not resist....i said it's been happening for at least a year and I was tired of it. I think she can put two and two together and knows that the cat is out of the bag. It sure does suck and honestly i am very pissed right now. I actually have a job interview in an hour and I hope the gentleman is looking for someone who is aggressive. I can't believe that my W is throwing all this away for a doorman in a Mexican nightclub! I could have understood it and forgiven it for a fling but when I look at D7, the house, all our history together......I guess she is no different than all the other WASs. She will get waht she deserves....I am officially going dark on anything other than D7 and the house sale. No friend of mine lies to me in my face like she has done the past year (the past month more importantly) and stays my friend. Kerry, the Paris trip was a Mexican trip....I think she went over there 3 - 4 times in a year and he came over here twice. And you my friend, please let me know if and when you are in my neck of the woods.