Hi T2L, As you can see from the timing the day that I really crashed, I had many doubts about DB or Men in general. I wanted to see what type of success stories that could be found so I posted a thread. I also found a thread from a woman Abbey that after many months? year? her H wants to make the R work. I have been reading other threads. I still think yours is one of the best..some of them turn into B@$@@$ sessions just tearing everything apart. We have moments of disallusion but we pull together. Also the woman Saffie that responded her H had an A for 18 months, and they actually renewed their vows. It is good to hear some reconnected Hs.
Me 53 H 50 D16, D29 M 22 years bomb 7/08 INH - alien pod replaces H 8/08 - OW (direct report), I work there also bomb II - H moves 10/1 expose ow 10/22 D to be final 9-09
