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Re: Watching, Listening, Waiting #3 JAK58 #1591106 09/13/08 02:14 PM
Joined: May 2007 Posts: 5,927 calif D Dr LOve Member
Dr LOve Member D Joined: May 2007 Posts: 5,927 calif	Goodluck lady, We have our last session today. there were about 30 couples the first weekend. it's down to 10. Today we are to bring our wedding pictures to share. W and I will only be attended the first half becasue we have a 25 yr wedding anv. party to go to. It seems a good ending to our sessions going to this party and a great beginning to the nest chapter in our life... Maybe I will ask wife to marry me agian tonight......while we are slow dancing.... Dr LOve And if I claim to be a wise man, well It surely means that I don't know

Re: Watching, Listening, Waiting #3 Dr LOve #1591333 09/14/08 12:29 AM
Joined: Aug 2007 Posts: 3,325 S Startingover2 Member
Startingover2 Member S Joined: Aug 2007 Posts: 3,325	I wished we could have done something like that. Sounds helpful! Me: 46 FWS: 36 Married and Divorced 4/07, Pregnant 7/07,False R 7/07 Baby Girl born 3/08 Kicked him out because OW: 7/08 5/10 He realized what he had and lost. Moved home! REMARRIED 3/14/11!!

Re: Watching, Listening, Waiting #3 Startingover2 #1591552 09/14/08 12:25 PM
Joined: Oct 2005 Posts: 3,665 M Matilda2 Member
Matilda2 Member M Joined: Oct 2005 Posts: 3,665	Sounds pretty good over here! Keep those positive thoughts, Jak!

Re: Watching, Listening, Waiting #3 Matilda2 #1594059 09/16/08 10:27 PM
Joined: Jun 2007 Posts: 2,866 USA F fightingirish Member
fightingirish Member F Joined: Jun 2007 Posts: 2,866 USA	Jak... where are you?? Is everything alright by you?? me: 37 H: 44 Married for 18 years this june S7 S3 porn issues, and much more... since 7/06 Happiness can be found, even in the darkest of times, if one only remembers to turn on the light.

Re: Watching, Listening, Waiting #3 fightingirish #1594596 09/17/08 11:26 AM
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Matilda2 Member M Joined: Oct 2005 Posts: 3,665	(((JAK)))

Re: Watching, Listening, Waiting #3 Matilda2 #1595035 09/17/08 05:54 PM
Joined: Dec 2006 Posts: 2,131 Upstate,N.Y. J JAK58 OP Member
OP JAK58 Member J Joined: Dec 2006 Posts: 2,131 Upstate,N.Y.	There is so much going on right now don't have time to post and my computer is down at home. H said he wishes not to attend Retro but, as soon as he is caught up on all the work he has he would like for us to go away for a weekend. I told him that wasn't what aretro was about and he said he knew that. I figured he would end up not wanting to go. Was acting as if but not counting on it so it wasn't a big let down. JAK Last edited by jak58; 09/17/08 05:55 PM. You don't get to choose how you're going to die. Or when, you can only decide how you're going to live now. ~Joan Baez

Re: Watching, Listening, Waiting #3 JAK58 #1595280 09/17/08 09:56 PM
Joined: Sep 2003 Posts: 1,778 Ohio Concerned_Listener Member
Concerned_Listener Member Joined: Sep 2003 Posts: 1,778 Ohio	Jak, Did you ask your H as to why he won't go to Retro? I think you deserve a real answer. CL CL 53 W 54 M 20 yrs. 03'-09' Separation + Old Patterns + GAL 10-14' Piecing "The Master allows things to happen. She shapes events as they come." ----Tao Te Ching

Re: Watching, Listening, Waiting #3 Concerned_Listener #1595821 09/18/08 02:33 PM
Joined: Dec 2006 Posts: 2,131 Upstate,N.Y. J JAK58 OP Member
OP JAK58 Member J Joined: Dec 2006 Posts: 2,131 Upstate,N.Y.	Yes Cl, He doesn't feel comfortable going is what he said. I think he means the anxiety he has around other people would be the issue. at least thats the way I take it. JAK You don't get to choose how you're going to die. Or when, you can only decide how you're going to live now. ~Joan Baez

Re: Watching, Listening, Waiting #3 JAK58 #1595837 09/18/08 02:43 PM
Joined: Dec 2006 Posts: 2,131 Upstate,N.Y. J JAK58 OP Member
OP JAK58 Member J Joined: Dec 2006 Posts: 2,131 Upstate,N.Y.	CL, How was the trip? hope it was wonderful! JAK You don't get to choose how you're going to die. Or when, you can only decide how you're going to live now. ~Joan Baez

Re: Watching, Listening, Waiting #3 JAK58 #1595839 09/18/08 02:44 PM
Joined: Jun 2007 Posts: 2,866 USA F fightingirish Member
fightingirish Member F Joined: Jun 2007 Posts: 2,866 USA	(((jak))) Im not suprised giving the fact that I know you and what you've told me. The wkend sounds great. Where does he want to go?? me: 37 H: 44 Married for 18 years this june S7 S3 porn issues, and much more... since 7/06 Happiness can be found, even in the darkest of times, if one only remembers to turn on the light.

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