You hit the nail on the head. He says that he doesn't know if he'll ever be able to trust me because of OM/emotional relationship and I don't know if I trust him to change and be able to be all that I need him to be because he's never been able to in the past.
Me (WAW) 30 H (LBS) 31 T since 6/10/1994 M 8/8/98 No kids S 3/10/08 D filed 6/9/08; put on hold 7/14/08 D finalized 10/13/08