It's only over if you say it's over. There's no reason why you can't delay things, and try to keep fighting. Can you go to your deathbed knowing you gave this everything you got?
Between us girls, do you REALLY think the even financial split is fair? (I'm not sure what your situation is, and not trying to bust on your wife -- I honestly don't know).
I DO think your wife will have SERIOUS regrets. Whether or not she stayed with you, she owed it to you, and to herself, to try to work things out with you, WITHOUT a third person messing with her brain chemistry.
She's being selfish.
Puppy
***EDITED TO ADD:[/b]
[b]Yenko, it's been exactly 30 days since you said "I do want to fight for my marriage." Is 30 days all the 'fight' you have in you???
