Very sage advice fig.....I know it is true. That was the place I was at last week. If you read any of my earlier post you can see that I was there. Things have just gotten a little bit mixed up in my world and I slipped. And that's ok. Now I need to just pick me back up and redirect my focus. It is hard for any of us to do this but it is what must be done.

I have not cried in a very long time and it seems that that is all I have been doing since Friday. I also understand that the reality of it is that it really does not have anything to do with my STBXH. All of this confusion is coming from the fear of my cancer. Just like I understand that his OW has nothing to do with me.

I do not see anything that you have said as being cruel, just wise. You have been through this as well and know better than I how to protect your heart. I, once again, am going to find the strength to step back and let him go. Thank you for what you said.


Broken Hearted
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Me - 36
H - 37
S - 8
Married - 1992
ILYNILWY - August 2007
Moved Out - March 2008
OW Revieled - May 28, 2008
Filed for D - July 2, 2008

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