Another one bites the dust

[stella_k]

The only question to me is, "What is best for BH?"

I agree wholeheartedly!

Dearest BH, whatever you choose to say or do now is FINE! Take care of yourself and let him deal with it.

And don't worry about the "date" thing.

Eventually he will be hit with realization how much you've being hurting and what courage it took to cover your pain and your fear and spare him the embarrassment over his heartless and cowardly conduct.

I don't know whether he is an MLCer but he definitely sounds like one.

I wish I could give you a real, warm (((hug))) now, not a virtual one.