I'm so glad you said what you did to him. He isn't man enough to act on it. But you said your peace. You know you told him what marriage and life mean to you, and if he still turns his back on you, then he deserves however you choose to treat him. The only question to me is, "What is best for BH?" And for your son. In life there are some people who are givers and some who are takers. In a healthy relationship, when the giver needs help the taker changes roles for a little while. But it doesn't look like your husband either can or will do that. So you need to find your support elsewhere. Be as friendly with him as you choose to be, for you. But don't allow it to weaken you. This is your time to draw strength from other people. Reach out and find those you can count on.
