Just wanted to throw this out while I'm going thru all the posts-I gotta catch up with you guys.
Someone told me that Dr. James Dobson had said that what the cheating spouse will do is re-create the marriage so that he can get mad and justify what he has done. So he can say well I was never happy because blah blah blah....Because he's recreated your entire marriage in his/her mind. Yeah it makes you feel so crazy since you know you had great memories and they never appeared unhappy. Anyways good stuff someone forwarded me.
Anyone have a chance to get any of the books I mentioned? I'm almost finished with one I just bought, breaks down the addiction aspect to the OW in the whole thing. Pretty good....ok I'm going to read more posts.
Me-38 H-38 Married 18years Daughter-17 & Son-9 Discovery of EA/PA 4/23/08 Left home 5/08/08 Moved in with OW 08/01/08
The only rock I know that stays steady, the only institution I know that works is the family. -- Lee Iacocca
