What a bold move it will be if I can actually pull off this moving back in thing, maybe a moment in DB history...am just trying to lay the groundwork now :). In fact I am planning to get back on a night where he has a test, and usually goes out to drink too much. In the past I have obsessively freaked out about his whereabouts on these nights. This time I would be calm and collected and send a text that I hope he has fun and I won't wait up, just be ninja-like in our bed and hope only for ML, and no discussions...
You're right that I shouldn't try to accommodate my H so much. At the same time I DO want to show him that I can be supportive while he is in school since he didn't feel this way about me before. It's a fine line...I'm trying instead to make sure he knows that I am available to help with editing papers,etc. I am also not ASKING him to do anything. He still thinks that this financial fiasco is partially my fault though when in reality we have overpaid for this year by about 3K because he got nervous, and THIS is what has put us in a bind...I mean we would owe it next year anyway. I really hope he figures this out soon :).
I will still let him off the hook for tonight's joint session if he sounds annoyed by it at the last minute. This could be another way to avoid too many R talks before the big day...
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Me:34 H:36 M:5 years T: 8 years Bomb: 07/17/08 I want to be separated for 6 months--I don't know what I want the outcome to be S 07/28/08-11/08/08 Living together ~7 months D Possibly busted?!?!!!
