prayers headed your way

and

i thihnk lissie is right

if you can be friends with 0 expectations...that means you are ok with just being friends, youa re ok listening to his life story as just freinds, you are ok with nothing more

then

be his friend

if you are being his friend with the hopes of being something more later...then don't do it

there are too many stressees in life to try to add that one to it

ther are so many other things to focus on

and you don't want him back, truly, if he is back because he feels guilty