She told me that in her position, she doesn't see him as an "alcoholic", but someone who does abuse alcohol when they use it. She said that there are 2 levels of classes that she can recommend before counseling (treatment center). She doesn't feel that he needs a treatment center, but has recommended that he go to the 2nd level of classes. -SueS
Glad to hear you are doing well, Sue!!! So good you were truthful; I'm sure so many people would have a hard time doing that, but the right thing to do of course.
Do you agree with her saying H is not an alcoholic (in her opinion)? I hate to say it but I think she's wrong. Half of my family are alcoholics, sober now, but once like your H. They always say, and I've read elsewhere that if alcohol is causing problems for you: legal, financial, personal relationships, or job problems then you would be considered alcoholic. I think your H would qualify. The sober alcoholics that I have in my family either went to treatment center or AA to finally get help that worked. I don't know that a class might help other than maybe help clue him into the fact that he is an alcoholic and needs that kind of help maybe? Karen
