How do you find a solutions oriented C? is that what cognitive behavioural therapy is?

W was with a counselor (recently) who seemed solution-oriented but switched. She said she bonded with the new counselor better.

I read somewhere that if the WAS is unable to forgive then efforts to work on the relationship by the LBS are almost futile. Maybe it was in DR.

Anyway, W relishes wallowing in feelings. Any attempt to move her from the world of feelings to the world of thought and action has been unsuccessful. 'She's and emotive thinker' the very first counselor of 7 yrs. would tell me. I think this C knew what was up. Problem was, C gave W homework which would be dropped somewhere when she got home and never looked at again.

Last edited by native; 09/17/08 11:07 AM.
Me 47, W 32,D 6,
Met 11 yrs. ago, M 7
Bomb 4/08/08, Sep. 8/10/08, Div. 8/10/09