5 weeks remain til next chapter starts

[istherehope]

I REALLY have to bite my tongue to not try and help him think of solutions for coming up with spending money. I mean I already have a few in mind. This is what I should do right? Let him deal with this on his own? We have joint finances, and I really want to be a support while he is in school since he's said I wasn't in the past, but if he doesn't want me there, I am not sure I should give him the best of both worlds. Any thoughts on whether this will actually make him think a little bit about how things would be easier if I were there? If I struggle now to find ways to make this easy on him, maybe he will just think that I will always do this, regardless of our living sitch...I also want him to appreciate the things I did a little bit more, just so maybe he can start to see that things weren't all bad. Of course I also want to be seen as supportive for him while he's in school, but maybe instead with my ninja-like move back into the house, then it is at that time that I can start being extra-supportive, so he can equate my support with me being in the house...

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