That's probably a good idea. I know that I have a tendency to get off track easily.
I'm not quite sure what my ultimate goal is anymore. I guess that's because it is a contingent goal.
So, in that case, I look to my immediate goal which is to have a frank honest discussion with my W about the last 6 months and her affairs. I'll focus on that goal for now and based on the result there, decide which path to go by.