At work tonight two times looked up at her from across the room which is pretty far away and she was definately looking in my direction whether she was looking at me I'm not sure, I also got two compliments that I was looking good from other workers ( female) I am not bragging, working out has always been part of my life so no I am not showboating, but my waw walked by me and the look on her face was anger and hurt, she wasn't looking at me either I get butterflies when I see her so I try not to look, also I think some women at work have egged her on to this divorce it's not like her and I know there isn't a om I have a long way to go sometimes I just want to give up I want to talk to her but she wouldn't answer anyway thanks for advise should I just not call or text I suspect I will be served papers sometime this week