I agree, he ain't getting it, just ignore him and let him go get his nookie somewhere else.
He is a big boy and can do his own laundry, and get his own meals.
Spend more nights out and let him watch the kids, if he ain't available, just pay the money for a good sitter, he is making enough with all that overtime.
Also start your planning your escape now. Make sure you can attach his wages for CS, and I am sure you can get alimony.
Good luck, I sure you can find a man who wants you and your kids, I know Tony would move there in a minute. What do you think about Florida
LL, seems to me he's SCREAMING I love you and I'm sorry...only in his OWN language!!!
Hon, I think he's smelling the coffee already.
I KNOW you need closure on the entire A issue and what it's done to you, LL. I do too, but CJ has made more steps in that direction than your H has.
It's just occurred to me that part of why your H may NOT be "trying as hard" is that really DIDN'T get physical with OW and so from his (genetically) male-biased view...it wasn't "that much" of a betrayal!!!
Now we all know that's nonsense, but it would explain some of his behaviours, no?
SOOO, how have you "been" around him today? Is it his own guilt over the argument or him sensing changes in you that is spurring this "acts of service/words of affirmation" spurt?
Gotta get outside before the bb lures me in for the rest of the night.
