True...one definition of insanity is doing the same thing over and over and expecting different results.
I'm sorry, but I sure wouldn't want to be under your H's flannels tonight! ...YUP, he got his own a$$ right where it is, and he needs to get it on out...but it's still kind of a pitiful picture, as I feel he really does love you...just for SOME, UNKNOWABLE, FRUSTRATING, reason is NOT showing it to you as you need and deserve.
Tell me LL, have you tried this stance before...this NOT bringing up a big issue? If not, then it's a 180 worth trying, as I feel that your H may well start smelling the coffee when you're not there making it for him every morning(that's just figurative, of course).
...YUP, he got his own a$$ right where it is, and he needs to get it on out...but it's still kind of a pitiful picture, as I feel he really does love you...just for SOME, UNKNOWABLE, FRUSTRATING, reason is NOT showing it to you as you need and deserve. 
