Okay, that said...I kinda feel sorry for the guy LL...I mean here you are.. faithful, beautiful, sexy, (which to me means INTERESTED in sex and joyful in your body), his kid's mother, a smart motivated woman...and the guy seems to have NO CLUE how to turn this around.
He MUST have a clue it NEEDS turning, but he's resorting to the same old tapdance...try to suck up...tiptoe around...escape through sleep...hope it "gets better"....
It's SO hard, LL, because I don't get the sense that your H is a bad guy, just really really THICK about what he should be doing right now!!!
Have you talked at all about today since the hangup?
