Quoting Jamesjohn: What stuff from way back in the past used to get him "hot to trot"? in the begining just like any new r...it just was, then he started to get tired. Back when you first started going out, and/or got married? "the problem" started long before marriage Before kids came into the picture? let's put it this way, when I told my boss that I was pregnant his response was "I thought you didn't do that" The times when he used to make you feel like more than a wife and a Mom, back to the times when you both made each other feel like a Man, and a Woman.
You might have to dig WAY deep for this right now, but give it some thought, and see what you can come up with. What kinds of things could maybe be recreated. after a while it became a sit where sex was something that mostly occured at the end of an evening out upon our return home. h cannot seem to make the time to go out on a "date" now and honestly the last couple that we did go on ended with a peck on the cheek goodnight...it seems a hopeless cause, funny though that on our last evening out wich was well over a month ago we stopped a victoria secret to spend a gift cert that I had..I let h pick out stuff...his first question was how are you set in the thong department, why the hell should he care if I wear a thong when he doesn't even notice? I just leave them in the drawer and wear them when I feel like it...thing is wearing them makes me feel like it and then I resent h all the more for ignoring me! oh ya and that night ended with nothing as well. It's a hopeless cause.
I will say though that h did always seem more interested when we'd go away on vacation...we haven't been on a vacation alone since son was born 4 years ago...aside from the little ski trip we took this winter..and on that trip I was turned down. I'm not bothering to initiate anymore...tired of the rejection.
there are obviosly more important issues...this one just makes the rest more iritating...like let's see...after todays bad interaction h is choosing to watch tv (actually by now he's probably asleep on the couch) instead of asking me what I'm doing and trying to appologize for hanging up on me or at least addressing the issue of todays "argument".
