Upside I am so happy for you. You are right, a small amount of pressure at the right time is appropriate. I know that a few months back I said to my h in a really nice way that h you really need to think about coming home. I won't be waiting forever.

His response, I know! Well look at our progress now!

Me 50
H 42
S 22
S 9
D 7
M 12
T 17
H moved out 8/2006
H moved home 1/2007 for 3 weeks
H moved home 5/2011 for good

"Learn from yesterday ~ Live for today ~ And hope for tomorrow"