Hey, LL...Brian, Man, are you speaking my thoughts for me now????

I came back on here to share that how you are feeling is how I feel when things are really at a low tide in our sex life...and for us...that can really be a dry spell...and it's not just about frequency.

It's about FEELING desired, wanted, sexy....It's about having something SPECIAL with your spouse...something only you share. A spark beyond "male relative" status!!

Clearly LL, your H KNOWS he screwed up today. All of his phone calls, lame as they are to you, to HIM they were an attempt to "make it alright"...if they guy didn't care and was REALLY a jerk..he wouldn't have tried so hard.

NOW don't get me wrong...I can definitely see your side... the very THOUGHT of H being "there" for OW in her hour of need and then just dismissing you...well!!!

NOW...since our sitches converge on this blasted physical intimacy issue... I CAN say for sure that things look WAY better when I feel loved in that manner. Conversely, when the dry spells get to me (which is pretty much always? ) I find myself digruntled, disappointed and longing for more.

Sorry about my use of the word "ignore" I just meant what you'd indicated...just sort of living "around him". Especially after his attempts to smooth over tonight, I hardly think he'd just adjust!

Well...how about it...Pam's been trying to guess what we all look like... I ranted about me for a while ...what about you??? IF you dare .

Shiny